“And He said, ‘What comes out of a man is what defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, fornication, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a man.” Mark 7:20-23
how ironic that a week before valentine’s day, the officer and the gentleman died with a broken heart.
his achievements were eclipsed by the turn of recent events. highlighted with scandal, his last episode was only a chapter of his life’s book. we would never get the chance to read its entirety because it is in God’s hands now.
it is now futile to point out exactly who or what led him to do what he had done. weeks before he died, he was maligned and verbally attacked in a senate hearing. he was already judged by publicity in media, in streetcorners, in workplaces, in households. he was betrayed by colleagues and fellow officers. the final blow was the implied threat that his family would likewise be subjected to the same.
all these so-called ‘attacks’, he tried hard to battle. his bravery as a decorated officer made him look like he would get through.
yet he lost. for the real war was waging within. whatever his reasons to commit suicide were, only he and the Lord know now.
the general may have messed up. but the senators did too. and so did the officers who accused him. everyone of us messes up. who doesn’t?
what’s vital here is not to allow ourselves to be instruments of another’s heartbreak ever again. let us not cause anyone to stir up any evil within that may yet cause him his life.
the truth is there will always be someone or something that would tempt us to mess up with our lives. that’s okey. as long as we DO NOT conform with them. our resolve, rooted in faith, would be our best defense.
but in moments of weakness when we do give in, let us not give up. there is no power greater than the Lord’s. let Him be our dependable ally. our best buddy. our personal savior. our BFF. our true love. He will never, ever break our hearts.
in the spirit of our unity in Christ our Saviour, let us all pray for the soul of Angelo Reyes. may he rest in peace, and may we all learn from the tragedy so that his death may not be in vain.