solitude is the state of being alone. to some it is a relief from stress. to be isolated in silence doing nothing. it is a luxury to those who had to deal with the hustle and bustle of life, day in and day out of their busy lives. solitude is a privilege to hear the voice of God. solitude gives us the chance to wait for what God has to say to us and feel his presence in our hearts.
but to others, solitude is simply just being alone. being isolated. being left out. some even equate being alone with being sad. some suggested ways to cope with it are:
1. start a hobby. gardening maybe, or art crafts. they calm the mind and body.
3. read. a book, newspaper or magazines that would stimulate your intellect.
4. exercise. sweat it out. (pick up that dumbbell that’s collecting dust already) or dance around.
5. be techy. surf the net, call mom and dad, chat with friends, play with the psp, blog
7. watch a movie. unable to go to the theater lately? now’s the time to catch up.
8. introspect. there’s no better time to examine yourself, reorganize your life and plan your future.
9. go out. meet new people. meet old friends. see new places.
after all these have been tried and tested, and still nothing worked, go back to the paragraph about solitude and try see it in this perspective. listen to the voice of God. listen. and then, pray. praying is our way of answering back the messages that we had listened to in our hearts. it is such an awesome feeling to know there is always someone we can talk to. we may not see Him through our human eyes, but if we looked deeper using the eyes of our faith, we can actually see his presence in our lives. and surely Jesus is there all the time. keeping us company. and amen! we are never alone after all.